One of the things I see crop up time and time again with myself, and in so many others and usually sub consciously, is the comparison to others. We focus so much on comparing ourselves to others, what they have, what they do, who they are, so much so, that we forget who we are and all the great things about us. (more…)
Month: May 2015
Life
Shame on me? No, I don’t think so
I grew up with the old adage
“Fool me once, shame on you,
Fool me twice, shame on me.”
While it’s quite often personally a good thing to focus on self preservation. Should it really be shame on me for falling for the actions of someone who isn’t authentic? Should we always prioritise self preservation over trusting other people? Where do we draw the line with self preservation and at what point does it turn in to ego? We have an instinctual need to survive and protect our family. It seems that somewhere along the line, ego has replaced self preservation. Community and trust have been lost, replaced with judgement and self entitlement. Everyone out for themselves. (more…)
Taking Stock 008 – May 2015
It’s May. Time for me to say “where has the year gone?”. I feel like I’m finally moving forward in doing the things I want. First step, know what you want. I’ve spent much of my life not knowing what I want, and too scared to make a decision. But no more, it’s time to do things my way, unapologetically.
Well, I’m learning to. “Dare greatly” is my new motto. (Read the book if you haven’t already – it might just change your life). (more…)